Talaq Divorce: Its Meaning According to the Actor of Matrilocal Residence in Muslim Society
Abstract
The case of divorce in the Islamic community in Indonesia has reached its problematic peak. The government (Ministry of Religious Affairs - MRA) along with its relevant subordinating services (R&D Center for Religious Living and BP4 (Marriage Preserving Fostering and Counselling Agency) in the KUA (Office for Religious Affairs)) is trying to find a solution to impede the surge of divorce rate. What is worrying to the MRA is the rising trend of petitioned divorce (the wife petitioning divorce) in the general public. In 2014, petitioned divorce throughout all Religious Court (Peradilan Agama - PA) was as much as 268,382 cases. The MRA is more and more concerned because the number of petitioned divorce is much more than the number of talaq divorce (as much as 113,850 cases).
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